Three months · Individual support & group · Online

More Alive.
More You.

From feeling stuck in old patterns to living and relating with greater freedom and authenticity.

A three-month journey to explore what really matters to you, understand the patterns that hold you back and find more freedom to show up as yourself.

Taster session: 26 November · 18:00 · Online & free

John Lack, your programme facilitator
Individually supported. Growing together.A space dedicated to what you want for yourself.
3 monthsFor your individual process
9 individual sessionsYour personal exploration
4 group sessionsExperience, connect, explore
Around 10 peopleOne consistent group
Perhaps this feels familiar

You long to feel
more free to be yourself.

Perhaps you know there's more of yourself you want to express, yet find yourself holding back, adapting to others or returning to familiar patterns. This programme creates space to explore what's in the way and what's possible beyond it.

  • You say yes when you really want to say no.
  • You hold back what you truly feel because you worry how others might react.
  • You find yourself repeating familiar patterns, even when you already understand them.
  • You know what you want, but taking steps towards it can feel difficult.
  • You wish you could show up more freely, without constantly second-guessing yourself.
A journey towards greater freedom

From old patterns to new possibilities.

FROM
TOWARDS
Holding back
Expressing yourself
Over-adapting to others
Honouring your own needs
Repeating old patterns
Having more freedom to choose
Fear of being seen
Courage to show yourself
Feeling disconnected
Feeling more alive and connected

These are developmental directions we can explore together. They are not meant as promised outcomes, but as potential longings that can give you direction.

The programme

Your inner journey.
Growing in connection.

Individual sessions give space to explore what matters most to you. Group sessions offer shared experiences, reflection and new ways of relating.

01 / INDIVIDUAL SESSIONS

A space to explore
what really matters.

In our 1:1 sessions, the focus is entirely on you. Together, we explore the patterns that may be holding you back from showing yourself fully, expressing what you truly feel and showing up authentically in your relationships.

  • 9 personal sessions with me
  • 3 sessions per month, individually bookable
  • Trauma-informed and NARM®-informed support
02 / GROUP SESSIONS

Grow together.
Discover possibilities.

Growth doesn't have to happen alone. In our group sessions, we can learn from and inspire each other, become mirrors for one another, and explore new ways of showing up in connection. The group can support you on your journey, and the connections you build may continue to support you after the programme ends.

  • 4 online group sessions · 120 minutes per session
  • Experiential exercises, sharing and short inputs
  • One consistent group throughout the programme

Group calls are in English by default. Individual sessions are available in German or English.

The approach

What becomes possible when you meet yourself with more curiosity?

We explore how you relate to yourself today and what might be getting in the way of being freely yourself. This can open up more freedom, aliveness and inner peace.

The journey

Four shared experiences.
One unfolding journey.

Each group session invites a new step, from connecting with your deeper wish to bringing what you discover into everyday life.

01 / CONNECT

The beauty of what's already here

Connect with the deeper wish you have for yourself and how this might positively affect many areas of your life.

02 / EXPRESS

Dare to show yourself

Explore expressing what you truly feel and your real 'yes' and 'no' in connection with others.

03 / EXPLORE

Inner Playground

Experiment with how life might feel when freely following your impulses. Explore the freedom of going for what you want in a playful way.

04 / INTEGRATE

Bring it into your life

Integrate what you've discovered and celebrate the steps you've taken.

Your group sessions

Group sessionDateTimeDuration
Group session 118:00120 minutes
Group session 218:00120 minutes
Group session 318:00120 minutes
Group session 418:00120 minutes
John Lack
Your facilitator · John Lack

How we relate matters.

I support individuals, couples and groups in exploring the patterns that shape how they relate to themselves and others.

My work brings together NARM®-informed practice, systemic coaching, embodiment and nonviolent communication. It is trauma-informed, relational and present-focused.

I also bring my joy in play, beauty and aliveness to this programme. I want to open a space where you can be with what is moving you right now.

Coach, author of The Art of Relating and Separating with Love, facilitator · Currently in NARM® training

More about my approach ↗
Your next step · Free taster session

Discover what holds you back from being more yourself
and your deeper wish behind it.

Join this free two-hour experiential session to explore a recurring pattern and reconnect with what you truly want. Experience a first taste of the programme, ask your questions, and decide in your own time whether you'd like to join.

26 November 2026 · 18:00Online · 2 hours · FreeAll times: Europe/Berlin
  1. Explore a recurring pattern.

    Notice where you might be holding back from being more yourself.

  2. Reconnect with your deeper wish.

    Explore what you truly want for yourself through guided reflection and shared practices.

  3. Bring your questions.

    Afterwards, you can take your time to decide whether you would like to join.

Good to know

Room for your questions.

Do I need a specific topic?

You can bring a heartfelt wish or a recurring theme. A longing for more aliveness or a deeper connection with yourself is also a starting point. In the taster session, you can ask questions and get a sense of whether the programme is a good fit.

How much time should I set aside?

The programme includes 9 individually bookable sessions over 3 months and 4 group sessions (120 minutes per session). Dates, times and durations are listed in the schedule. Individual sessions last 60 minutes.

Do I have to share personal things in the group?

You decide what to share and how far you want to take part in an exercise. We agree on a considerate, confidential way of being together. Your individual sessions also give your personal topics their own space.

Do I need experience with coaching?

No previous experience is needed. Curiosity about yourself and a willingness to make time for your process are helpful. You can learn more about the approach in the taster session.

Is this programme psychotherapy?

This is coaching, not psychotherapy or medical treatment. It does not replace medical, psychiatric or psychotherapeutic diagnosis or treatment. Please speak to me if you are unsure whether this format fits your needs.

What if I miss a session?

We record the group sessions and make them available exclusively to participants. Personal processes are not included in these recordings.

Which languages is the programme offered in?

Group calls are in English by default. Individual sessions are available in either English or German.

Your first step

What wants
more space in you?

Get a first taste in the free taster session and explore whether these 3 months could be the right next step for you.

26 November 2026 · 18:00

Online · Europe/Berlin · No commitment

Taster session · 26 November
18:00 · Free
Join the free taster session